An academic Sexual Imagery Blog written by Lauren Gilbertson for Jil Freeman's COMM 410: Sex & Media course.

Sunday, March 6, 2011

Final Presentation: Images portraying the ideal loss of virginity

Popular television images viewed by adolescent audiences:
Mediated examples are shown portraying the ideal ‘scene’ where adolescents lose their virginity.

Because our topic requires you to step back a few years in your past; we'd like to invite you to take the opportunity to reflect back to your high school days and ask yourself, "What do I remember being the ideal approach to losing my virginity?" Back in high school we spent a lot of time in front of the TV, my friends and I watched as our favorite characters from The OC and One Tree Hill experimented with their sexuality and lost their V-cards. I remember watching and thinking, "No way what am I gonna do?"

The OC: Seth & Summer

One Tree Hill:
Nathan & Haley

Our blog is based on popular TV programs shown today and from our past. We will be exploring the ways in which adolescent audiences are watching their favorite characters are having sex and losing their virginity in unrealistic scenarios. Today, as mentioned before in class, Gossip Girl is a popular show viewed by teens. This image is from a scene where Blair loses her virginity in order to save her relationship. This is a common scene shown on TV, for the female character to feel obligated to have sex in order to keep or please her man. For the remainder of our blog Liz and I will be referring back to these artifacts in order to apply important concepts learned from our readings.

Gossip Girl: Chuck & Blair

This last artifact is similar to the previous, although lacking a sexual act between a male and female character. Instead, in this clip of the Secret Life of an American Teenager, we will see how a teen's life is heavily influenced by those of their peers and other outside sources, including the media. Grace, a prude and prideful character is shown calling a friend for advice for her "big night." Also known as, her first time having sex. Grace has chosen to engage in sex with a not-so-nice character and ultimately her friend is disappointed. This artifact reinstates the idea that adolescents are at huge risk for being influenced in negative ways due to their vulnerable state. We believe that teens not only get advice and ideas no sex from their friends but also from the media, including popular teen dramas.

Watch video here: Secret Life of an American Teenager: Grace & Jack



Important concepts from readings include but are not limited to:

Gender roles:

Within these images there are societal norms displayed, these norms include gender roles. The gender roles assume the girls to be feminized and the boys to be masculine, even at such a young age. Gender roles begin to be assumed even as early as in the womb, considering the pink vs. blue arrangements per gender. The specific gender roles assume in these images are merely an additional reminder to how young boys and girls ought to be. These images portray a perception of personal aspects that genders should abide to, including personal characteristics, behaviors and relationships.

The environments in which these characters are displayed are unrealistic. The environments are idealized ways of life and as a teenager, there are many pressures encouraging conformance. The characters on popular teenage television shows introduce many teens to boundary pushing elements. More specifically, teens are being introduced to how they should act individually, but also within relationships. As teens grow, their hormones and curious minds heighten. The TV industry creates hyper-masculine and feminine roles to show to these vulnerable teens.

While watching these television programs, teens are likely to idolize at least one of the characters. That is, wishing to be like one of the characters or aspiring their lifestyle. In these images, it is likely a teen will wish for the perfect body, wealth and popularity or promiscuity. Examples of gender roles from our images include for females; seductress, dependent, passive, powerless and nymphomaniac. For males, they are in control, professional, sex crazed and aggressive. Many of these characteristics are meant to be shown in adult roles but instead they’re being taken on by teenage characters.

Sexual Scripts:

Our images not only display examples of society inspired gender roles, but also sexual scripts. Sexual scripts are a concept explained by Gail Markle in the “Can women have sex like a man? Sexual Scripts in Sex & The City” article. The concept of sexual scripts challenges the ideas of sexual desires and behaviors of men and women. Markle explains these scripts as how individuals learned sexuality from messages from our cultures that define sex and sex behaviors and how to recognize sexual situations. The teens are using these sexual scripts to identify how to act sexually and learn what arouses them. From sexual scripts is also derived the sexual script theory. Markle compares this theory to the symbolic interactionist perspective as well as to Freud’s ideas of symbolic material within the psyche.

Within the sexual script theory there are several assumptions. Sexual patterns are introduced and expressed by assuming gender roles in the media. Also, depending on the culture, the meaning of sex differs. People can acquire these definitions and patterns of sexual conduct through life by biological instincts as well as media influence. People can also make adaptations to sexual scripts in order for them to meet their individual needs.

More importantly than theory are the three levels of sexual scripts. The three levels are 1) cultural scenarios 2)interpersonal scripts 3) intrapsychic scripts. Cultural scenarios can be explained as societal norms and narratives that are used as guidelines for sexual conduct. Second, interpersonal scripts can be explained as how cultural scenarios turn into scripts for certain circumstances. Third, intrapsychic scripts are sexual fantasies, objects and behaviors that create sexual arousal. Cultural scenarios are most definitely portrayed in our images but also are interpersonal scripts. These scripts tend to vary per person based on individual experiences and preferences.

Popular teenage media reinforces societal norms/ expectations:

Janna Kim, in her “From sex to sexuality: Exposing the Script on Primetime Network” says that television provides teens with info guiding girls and boys how to act, feel, think, and behave in romantic relationships. In these specific television series, Lauren and I looked at the specifics of exactly how these shows were telling teens to act.

Teen Girl: What do I look like and who do I sleep with?

o I want to be beautiful to western societal constructed views.

o I want to look older than I am.

o I want to dress as though I am affluent.

o I wear clothing that shows off my womanly figures so that I am easy to objectify so that men want me.

o The more I appear to want sex, the more the boys will pay attention to me.

Teen Boy: What do I look like and who do I sleep with?

o Janna Kim talks about how male characters most often play heterosexual script by being active and aggressive in pursuing sex.

o The male is either a jock or has other talents or is in the level of power in some way such as teacher or some other power position.

o Wear either my letterman’s jacket or classy clothing showing that I have money and can take care of you.

o I sleep with girls who are willing to please my sexual needs and that show that they want and crave sex.

o A girl who fits the western stereotypical beauty (thin and appear to have money)

We looked at how these artifacts portray sexual content and what counts as sex in these shows and what do they show losing your virginity to look like? “A Genealogy of the Genital Kiss: Oral Sex in the Twentieth Century” by Hunt and Curtis discuss the idea that the sexual behavior of youth causes anxiety for many and most people, and these individuals in these shows are supposed to be teens. But if you take a look at all of these shows that we have selected as our artifacts, and most all of the programs on television in general, these individuals who are supposed to be teens and in high school seem much too old to be in high school, normalizing the sexual behavior that goes on in a sense, and making it okay and appropriate.

Although these artifacts are all high school aged teens, the writing by Dempsey and Reichert describes in their “portrayal of married sex in the movies,” that the most common passionate behavior between couples in television and film is passionate kissing. This is shown in every single one of these artifacts, even in the still photos. By doing this, the producers are able to imply that sexual content is about to happen, and when the scene fades out, we can be certain that it did.

Conclusion:

When we began our research for this topic we found examples of unrealistic sex portrayals in popular shows such as 90210 from the 90s. Meaning that if these ideals of sexual content were being shown to teens then and when we were in high school, as well as today then they are only going to become more explicit.

1990s: 90210

These explicit portrayals are already being shown today. The popular teen drama, Teen Mom is an example of how teen sex is becoming more normalized. These moms were given fame in return for giving up their teenage lives. This show ultimately gives an unrealistic outcome of the consequences of what it is to become a teen mom. Liz and I believe that as teens continue to watch popular TV shows showing the ideal "scene" where adolescents ought to lose their virginity; then the ratings will continue to rise as teens consume images reflecting false ideals of teenage sexuality.

Today: Teen Mom

Works Cited:
Videos courtesy of Youtube
Images courtesy of The CW and ABC Family

Dempsey, J.M., & Reichert, T. (2000). Portrayal of married sex in the movies. Sexuality & Culture, 4(3), 21-37.

Hunt, A. & Curtis, B. (2006). A genealogy of the genital kiss: Oral sex in the twentieth century. The Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality, 15(2), 69-83.

Kim, J., Sorsoli, C.L., et. al. (2007). From sex to sexuality: Exposing the heterosexual script on primetime network television. Journal of Sex Research, 44(2), 145-157.

Markle, G. (2008). “Can women have sex like a man?”: Sexual Scripts in Sex and the City. Sexuality & Culture, 12, 45-57.

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